Big-time dreams in a small town

In the middle of the past high school swim season, I sat across from Isabella Gati, a ninth grade phenom, for our first interview. I'd heard about this young athlete, read her dominant results on paper, but it was our first meeting. It didn't take long for her to tell me her aspirations - to compete in the Olympics.
Isabella had it mapped out for a specific year and everything. She wasn't just talking. She had a plan.
I listened intently before I popped the obvious question.
"Can you get to the Olympics from El Dorado?"
Isabella, who was with her mother, glanced at her mom and then looked toward the floor, smiled at me and gave one of those shoulder shrugs. It wasn't really an answer but then again, oh yeah it was.
Isabella will be attending a boarding school in Virginia so she can compete on one of the country's premier swim clubs out of Washington D.C. She's among her peers, girls with similar hopes and dreams. She will be pushed by her coaches and competitors to reach her full potential.
It was an obvious move because, unfortunately, you cannot get to the Olympics from El Dorado. At least, not a straight shot.
I've been here 25 years. So far, El Dorado doesn't appear to be a launching spot to professional or world caliber competition.
No Wildcats in the NFL, NBA, MLB, PGA, LPGA, WTA, ATP, WNBA, MLS ... pick a letter.
Junction City's Kevin Payne made it to the NFL Chicago Bears. Junction City's James Anderson recently signed with the NBA Sacramento Kings. But, why has El Dorado been shut out?
Oh, it got close. Remember Amanda McCurdy? She's probably the best female golfer this state has ever produced. She finished second in the U.S. Amateur and made the cut in the LPGA U.S. Open as an amateur. She was close to getting on the LPGA Tour but never really got the support and backing she needed.
To me, that's the problem. If McCurdy had hailed from a community that backed her career financially, perhaps she would be on the LPGA Tour, wearing a Wildcat hat and teaching the world how to pronounce El-doh-Ray-doh. But, she didn't play football. She played golf and, specifically, she played GIRLS golf.
Football players get plenty of support in this town and I think that's great. El Dorado's Bijhon Jackson, hopefully, will soon end our unprofessional skid as he braces for a big year at Arkansas. He squatted 700 pounds the other night.
I just wish there were big companies in our area who would give that same kind of support to the other athletes. You can't get to the Olympics from El Dorado and it's getting difficult to get to a major college in sports other than football. Most of the kids from this area who earned Division I basketball scholarships - Anderson, Stetson Billings, Whitney Frazier, Savanna Langston, etc. - had to drive to Little Rock so they could play on elite AAU club teams. Courtney Lowe's dream was to playing Division I softball. She made it come true but she had to drive deep into Texas just to practice for her summer travel team. Hell, I remember years ago calling tennis hotshot Irene Jadic on the phone. She was headed to Hot Springs because she needed someone to hit with.
I think it's a shame that local kids with big dreams have to leave South Arkansas as soon as they can if they want those dreams to be realized. I'm not saying El Dorado can build a world class training facility for swimmers. If your child is a swimmer or gymnast or something so specialized as that, yeah, they're probably going to have to move from South Arkansas. But, this area is big enough to be more than it is. When I got here in the early 90s, Mellor Park Tennis Courts hosted the biggest junior tennis tournaments of the summer. Teaching professional Suzanne Phillips had built her local program to a point where the best players from around the state and region flocked to El Dorado because it's where the competition was playing.
Of course, Mellor Park is run by the city. The tennis courts started to crack and weren't repaired and, eventually, Miss Phillips quit and the local tennis scene disappeared. But, it was here and it was huge. I watched it.
There's no reason South Arkansas kids should have to drive to Little Rock to play elite level basketball. That's crap. All it takes is one large corporation to step up. Same for baseball and softball and tennis and track.
It's amazing to me that this part of the state has won all these state championships in all these sports. Yet, we've produced no world class athletes beyond the state level except for Payne and Anderson. It's not the kids' fault. They have the talent and some of them have the desire.
They just can't get out of El Dorado fast enough.

Help me out here

I'm confused.
Okay, the quarterback at Florida State, DeAndre Johnson, was kicked off the football team for hitting a female. I get that part. Men are physically stronger and larger and are supposed to be protectors of women. Punching a woman in the face is a criminal offense.
But, but, but, but.
The video shows the woman in this case as the aggressor. She balls up her fist, which he grabs and holds. She then tries to knee him in the groin and finally swings at him with her other hand.
Then, he punched her.
I'm not saying he should've punched her. But, I understand.
My confusion isn't what he did to deserve getting kicked off the football team. I don't understand how she gets away as if she's done nothing wrong.
Two wrongs don't make a right and they damn sure don't when only one of the wrongs is punished.
There are clear-cut consequences for any man who hits a woman. Why are there no repercussions for a female who instigates a fight with a male? Hey, I believe in equal rights for women. I've covered girls sports just the same as boys sports in our local paper for more than 20 years. But, if any woman walks up to me and punches me in the face, I guess I'm going to jail.
If you've got enough testosterone in your body to swing a fist. You should have enough to duck when a fist comes swinging back at you.
To be clear, I'm not advocating violence against women. If a woman hits me and I hit her back, I'm going to jail. I understand that part. But, she should be sitting there with me. I hate to sound like a 5-year-old but, "She started it."